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10 Ways to Prepare for Separation or Divorce: Tips from a divorce lawyer

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byVexxit Staff onFebruary 25, 2021

While divorce and separation can be a daunting process, getting accurate information is critical. If you or a loved one is considering divorce, explore ten ways you can prepare and transition to the next chapter of your life.

Through the pandemic, divorce and separation have been on the rise as have unsafe domestic situations. While divorce and separation can be a daunting and expensive journey, getting accurate information is critical.

Explore the 10 ways that individuals can better prepare for a separation of divorce based on insights from a webinar hosted by divorce lawyer, Corrine Kulyk. You can watch the full webinar recording here.

10 Ways to prepare for separation or divorce:

  1. Work with a lawyer. This ensures you get the most accurate, up-to-date information regarding current laws. The courts are constantly changing and there is a lot of inaccurate information out there. The best thing to do when starting the divorce process is to contact a lawyer and get help.

  2. One of the biggest assumptions is that if you have shared custody of a child, you don't have to pay child support. This is very rarely the case.

  3. If you do not wish to work with a lawyer, it is advised that at minimum you book a consultation with a legal representative. This will provide information to educate yourself on the rights and entitlements to negotiate on your own.

  4. There are six processes available when separating that will bring you to a resolution. These include negotiation between parties, mediation services, collaborative law, negotiations between counsel (most traditional), arbitration and litigation. They all have different levels of cost, control, and time.

  5. The first thing you should ask a lawyer is their hourly rate and retainer fee.

  6. Common law is one of the most misunderstood areas of family law. There are multiple definitions depending on your circumstance.

  7. If all factors were equal, negotiations between parties would be the best way to settle a case. It gives you the most control and creativity for a peaceful resolution.

  8. If you can avoid litigation, you should. The litigation process is the longest process, gives you the least control, and will cost the most.

  9. One of the most common myths surrounding divorce is that if you share custody of a child, you don't have to pay child support. This is rarely the case.

  10. Lawyers have heard and seen it all. There should never be embarrassment of your situation. Lawyers are trained to engage in difficult conversations. If your lawyer doesn't have all the information, they cannot work in your best interest.

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